If the bridesmaid dress was $360, how much is too much to ask of bridesmaids for the bachelorette party?
The wedding will be in the SF Bay Area, all bridesmaids are 25-26. Given the cost of the dress and shoes ($360), what would be an appropriate amount to ask of each bridesmaid for the bachelorette party?
Nothing! That is a very expensive dress.
Also, it is rude to "bill" the bridesmaids for a bachelorette party. If they pay, they are the hosts... and that means they get to decide what kind of party it is, what food, location, and even whether to have a party or not!
Hosting a bachelorette party is their decision. If they want to, great. If not, thats perfectly fine too.
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